Dad’s Urban Dictionary – Learn 2024 Teen Speak

Ever felt like your kid's speaking another language? You’re not alone in the linguistic labyrinth of "vibe check" and "lit."

We’ve compiled a handy guide to some of the most popular phrases and words lighting up the texts and TikToks of today's youth. It's time to get schooled:

The Dad's Urban Dictionary:

"Lit" - Think of this as the new "cool," but with more fire. If your BBQ skills are "lit," it means you've pretty much nailed it.

"Salty" - Not what you become after a beach day, but how someone feels after getting slighted. Use it to show empathy when your teen's team loses: "Feeling salty, bud?"

"Yeet" - This one's all about the action. It's the dance move you shouldn't do at family gatherings or the way you might throw a pillow in a playful tiff.

"Fam" - Short for family, but not just the ones who share your DNA. It's the crew, the squad, the ones you'd share your last slice of pizza with.

"Flex" - To show off. Warning: Calling out your teen's "flex" might result in eye rolls or a sudden increase in room privacy.

"Gucci" - It means good or cool, derived from the luxury brand. "Dinner was Gucci, Dad" means you didn't overcook the pasta for once.

"No Cap" - No lie. If they say, "Your dad's jokes are actually funny, no cap," you've hit the jackpot.

"Vibe Check" - A way to gauge someone's emotional state. Handy for checking in without the usual "How was school?"

"Snack" - Compliment someone's looks without diving into creepy territory. Maybe reserve this for your partner rather than the kids.

"Extra" - Going above and beyond in a way that's a bit much. When you wear a suit to a parent-teacher meeting, you're being "extra," but hey, at least you're making an impression.

"Ate" - Not what you did with that last piece of pie, but how someone completely nailed something. "You ate that presentation" means you did an outstanding job.

"Rizz" - Think of it as charisma 2.0, born from the digital playground of TikTok. When they talk about someone having great "rizz," they're praising that person's magnetic personality.

"Snatched" - For something that looks really good or on point. Compliment your partner's cooking with, "This lasagna is snatched," and watch the confusion unfold.

"Boujee" - Derived from "bourgeoisie," it's all about the finer things in life. If your kid wants brand-name cereal instead of the store brand, they’re leaning "boujee."

"Bussin" - When something tastes incredibly good. Finally get approval of your BBQ skills with, "Dad, this steak is bussin'."

Wielding these words effectively might just earn you some street cred at the dinner table or, at the very least, a few entertained eye rolls.

While staying on top of every new word can feel like chasing your hat in a windstorm, it's all about keeping the lines of communication open, showing interest, and maybe sharing a laugh or two over the absurdity of it all. Remember, it's not just about understanding their words, but about letting them know you're trying, you care, and you're there for them - even if it means occasionally embarrassing yourself.

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We aren’t going to actively encourage you to start throwing this lingo about. Just know that knowledge is power, my friend.