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Getting kids to look beyond their next snack or video game level can be like asking a cat to take a bath. But shaping them into great future partners starts with the values of care and appreciation. They might not always listen to your words, but they'll remember how you treat your partner.
The Power of a Daily Note
Daily Post-it Challenge: Start a fun family tradition where everyone writes a kind note to each other daily. A simple " Your pancakes are the bomb " or " Your hugs are better than ice cream " can go a long way. It teaches kids the importance of verbal appreciation and acknowledging the little things.
Action Step: Get a stack of colourful post-its and start the challenge tonight. Encourage your kids to write a note to each family member, highlighting something positive.
Acts of Service
Cook Together: Make cooking an adventure, not a chore. Show your kids that creating a meal is a love language. Pick a Saturday morning, blast some fun tunes, and whip up breakfast together for your partner. Imagine their delight when served a stack of pancakes with a side of “You’re awesome.” It’s a tasty lesson in showing appreciation through action.
Action Step: Choose a favourite breakfast recipe and plan a cooking session with your kids this weekend. Let them take the lead, making it a fun and educational experience.
"Raising future legends of love and appreciation starts with the small, everyday gestures—show them how it’s done, and watch them become the relationship pros of tomorrow."
Giving Thoughtful Gifts
Flowers Just Because: Teach your kids that gifts don’t have to wait for special occasions. A surprise bouquet or a hand-picked flower from the garden can brighten someone’s day and show that they’re always on your mind.
Action Step: Next time you’re at the store, let your kids pick out a small bouquet or have them gather flowers from your garden to give to your partner. It’s the thought and spontaneity that counts.
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Learning by Example
Lead by Example: The way you treat your partner sets a benchmark for your kids. Let them see you holding hands, sharing jokes, and speaking kindly to each other. Your actions will speak louder than any lecture on love and respect.
Action Step: Be conscious of your daily interactions. Show consistent love and appreciation in your actions, not just on special occasions.
The Importance of Listening
Active Listening: Teach your kids that one of the best ways to show they care is by listening. When your partner talks about their day, demonstrate active listening by putting down the phone and engaging fully.
Action Step: Involve your kids in conversations and encourage them to ask questions and show interest in what others are saying. It’s a simple yet powerful way to show they care.
When it comes to raising future legends of love and appreciation, it's the small, everyday gestures that count. Whether it’s a kind note, surprise flowers, or cooking breakfast together, these little habits shape your kids into thoughtful partners. By showing them how it’s done, you’re not just raising kids; you’re crafting the next generation of relationship pros. Keep it fun, keep it genuine, and who knows? One day, they might just be giving you relationship advice, and you'll know you did something right.
DADDING IN ACTION |
Tonight, start the Daily Post-it Challenge with your family by writing a kind note to each family member. |
Resources
Books:
"The 5 Love Languages of Children" by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell
"Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child" by John Gottman
Podcasts:
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